one secret small meatballs
delicious little meatballs can be eaten as snacks can also be used in the dish, stir-fries, soups are really nice.
this small meatballs seemingly ordinary, in fact, it is a little different, because it added a special material, so that meatballs are not tired, but taste super good, feel more smooth and delicate taste.
ingredients: meat, a pound (half and half or fat too fat, lean six four), egg, starch 2 tsp onion half root, ginger, soy sauce, cooking wine, salt.
special materials - bread a
Practices: 1, bread torn off the surface (direct eaten), pour a large bowl, soak bread into peeled. After all thoroughly soaked, remove the bread, bread by hand clutched to the water, as far as possible all the water out.
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2, meat whipped pull its weight, respectively, add chopped onions, ginger, egg, starch Beat, add soy sauce, cooking wine, salt and seasoning.
3, adding water squeezed bread, stir evenly.
4, the oil till hot, take some of the meat hand, squeeze a small ball from the jaws of death at the wok and deep fry cooked brown (fear of sticky hands can stick some water).
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really small balls, small white flowers in front of the plate is dry to the stars, compare, we can see the size of balls oh.
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Second, the carrot balls
carrots maximum effect is Bugan eyesight to see such a tempting carrot balls, you are not themselves do ~~~
Material: balls do not a fixed amount of material, ingredient is carrot and coriander, the proportion with their own tastes, of course, must be the most carrots. Not like parsley, and it can hold. Fans are my favorite, tofu can also be replaced. The amount of flour and starch do not put as many balls into the group level can can. Can be added with the mix with, depending on circumstances.
carrots, parsley, noodles, green onions, ginger, salt, allspice, flour, starch.
Practices: 1, carrots, peeled and rub into the wire.
2, parsley washed and chopped.
3, fans soaked, chopped.
4, green onions, chopped ginger.
5, all shredded material mixing.
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6, salt, allspice, pepper.
7, marinated stuffing, to the extent you can you can group into balls.
8, the oil is hot, put the group into good balls and deep fry golden surface, good prime balls cooked.
Note: Do not rub carrot rub into special thin wire, the left figure of just right, the right is too thin. Too small, then it would be nice to do some, but not good taste, fried, they also easily deformed.
directly to eat, stir-fries, soups can be into the pot, make Spicy, a pill eat ~
three pearl balls
favorite food to eat, have good friends, have a close ... ... really love to meet
pearl balls, also known as glutinous rice balls
wrapped meatballs with rice, delicious but not greasy, even particularly like
It is worth mentioning is that it does meet the crystal clear look, Material:
minced meat, salt, chicken, pepper, ginger, cooking wine, a little oil, a small amount of flour, eggs
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Practices: 1, according to 3:7 ratio of fat with lean cooking machine Jiaocheng minced (or knife cut better taste) salt, chicken, pepper, ginger, cooking wine, a little oil, a small amount of flour, eggs in one direction of the mix to pull its weight; similar production methods to see where the meat: Pork stuffing gluten
2, Soak glutinous rice well in advance (soak more than 5 hours), drain;
3, the marinated meat in the palm of the hand grasping the ball out with a tiger's mouth, and then spoon to scoop the next mudghah, make meatballs, drain the rice on the last;
4, push the balls with a spoon to coat evenly to the rice;
5, make the balls put on the steamer, SAIC and steam about 20 minutes later, and finally sprinkle with chopped green onion.
four vegetables prime balls
materials:
potato 200 grams, 100 grams carrots, parsley, 20 grams, egg 1, 2 grams of salt, pepper 1 g, diced green onion a little.
detailed approach as shown:
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detailed approach as shown:
five Sixi balls
Material: pork (fat and lean 1:4), eggs, onions, ginger, soy sauce, cooking wine, salt, pepper, anise, monosodium glutamate, wet starch, peanut oil.
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Steps: 1, dried pork chop fine, put into bowl, add eggs, onion ginger at the end of the wet starch, soy sauce, cooking wine, stir in one direction, so that meat pull its weight.
2, then the balls made of the same size spare (I do not head the ball, a little smaller than the eggs it).
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3, the pot into the peanut oil, on the fire Liucheng hot (about 150 ℃) when placed in meatballs until golden brown until golden.
4, balls into a large bowl, add soy sauce, cooking wine, pepper, anise, wok, stir broth and steam for 30 minutes out.
can also use broth to cook fifteen minutes, until the soup thickens after the water, starch, starch.
six, sweet and sour balls
- Sweet and sour meatball production materials: Ingredients: pork (lean) 400 grams of pork (fat) 100 grams
accessories: eggs, 75 g,
sauce: peanut oil 15 grams, 2 grams of soy sauce, vinegar 3 grams of starch (pea) 2 grams, 5 grams sugar, green onions 3 grams, 3 grams ginger, garlic (white) 2 g
Sweet and sour balls approach: 1, the meat chopped into mashed, add dry starch, eggs, stir well, into a paste-like stand.
2, take the spoon, add the oil pan, extruded balls one by one under the sauce to spoon fry until golden brown remove, the temperature rise to Jiucheng hot, then pour some oil in deep-fried about 1 minute, remove and control Absolute. [Food China]
3, with a bowl put sugar, vinegar, soy sauce, water, starch, mixed with water and turned into juice stand.
4, the original spoon stay in base oil, with onions, ginger, garlic, soy pan, into the lying against a good sweet and sour sauce cooked, spoon into the ball turned, poured out the oil, a spoon can be.
Sweet and sour meatball production tips: This product has been frying process, prepare the oil of about 200 grams.
sweet and sour balls feature:
crispy sweet and sour, savory taste.
seven, sweet and sour balls
ingredients:
minced meat (pork, fish, beef can) 500 grams.
Ingredients:
5 grams of salt, oil 10 grams, 1 egg white, starch, a little water, onion 10 grams, ginger, cooking wine, pepper to taste.
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approach:
1, mince their best chop, chop their own meat meat taste than machine-printed slip to alcohol. Pork, beef meat to pick off the fascia, first cut into thin slices, then cut into wire, and then cut into cubes, chop up so easily broken; fish back that the best piece of meat with fish, first remove the fish large bone, cut into thin slices along the lines of fish, (with a knife blade into scraping dried along the lines better, but this operation is not very realistic at home) also chopped meat.
2, a good chop meat, the first program to play with 2 grams of salt, the salt is the key to making chewy balls, played some of the King, and then slowly adding other ingredients, has been circled in one direction, until you feel resistance, almost, that takes about an hour or so.
3, pinch the meat with the palm of your hand, squeeze a ball in the tiger's mouth position.
4, after the balls come out, making the powder, you can wok fried thoroughly. Zhawan Zi oil temperature not too high, feeling his hand in the oil to heat, not very hot on the next ball with a small fire bomb through.
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sweet and sour balls approach:
ingredients: fried balls number, Lee Kum Kee sweet chili sauce
practice: a little oil in the pan upside down, the Lee Kum Kee sauce into the pan fried sweet powder, add a little water to separate into the fried balls, low heat and slowly simmered through and see stiffness, if too thin and then hook a thickening starch with water, so that each ball is wrapped in a layer of thick sweet and spicy sauce.
exhort small words:
Then put the fried balls can be placed in the refrigerator, took out the time needed to solve the ice you can garnish the soup or do other.
Saturday, July 9, 2011
---------- The smile left to the person most hurt you
This is how strong and free and easy life,
which to experience how much love and hate intertwined.
heartbeat from the meeting between the men and women to sexual gratification,
and then to each other superb spiritual calling,
may go a long way,
from all undefended,,,
even pure heart are presented with a body to the other,
to the worth of tenderness are translated into soon as traumatic as the sigh,
also just a short moment.
When former love no longer exists ,,,,< br> When the feelings of flowers have been beaten Canhong Falling autumn when,
people always used to love a long time to stop in the low branches Yin shallow sing,
not share my heart still cherish the tenderness had gone with the wind,
hurt themselves seek a change of heart ,,,,< br> is determined to exact revenge in the same way,
But it is unwise not chic cute.
the most appropriate way is to smile, he said to treasure.
smile left to defeat our people,
to tears left to themselves,,,
the blessing to have lost our people,
the pain for themselves.
without a high cultural enrichment,
no insight into the subtle feelings,
no loved one from the heart of love,
who can do farewell smile? ?
the easy smile has left the general friend,
our people to have a negative is difficult.
Because most people tend to hurt us is our deepest love,
pay more, when the heart has been hurt more pain.
However, we have to smile,
mysterious feeling itself is a very complex thing.
We can not force others,
love of the reasons thousands of articles,
do not love the thousands of articles may be a reason also untenable,
that the mystery of who is there to say which so clear? no solution
love, love of impermanence.
we can sacrifice love,
but not at the expense of personality and self-esteem,
person alive that is the primary meaning.
damage to deal damage to a Jiehen way of course,
but the results can only hurt the people you love more determined to leave the determination.
love is double-edged sword,
one against the other, the other directed at his head.
moment of catharsis, although dripping, I, of tragedy is more intolerable.
inner balance can only be a temporary increase their black and blue,
why bother disturbing the others, they hurt themselves? After a,
even if the bar. The face of past laugh. . .
smile watching over a loved one happy day,
stronger than anything else.
in waiting,
pain will be gone quietly,
replaced with thoughts of his care.
which to experience how much love and hate intertwined.
heartbeat from the meeting between the men and women to sexual gratification,
and then to each other superb spiritual calling,
may go a long way,
from all undefended,,,
even pure heart are presented with a body to the other,
to the worth of tenderness are translated into soon as traumatic as the sigh,
also just a short moment.
When former love no longer exists ,,,,< br> When the feelings of flowers have been beaten Canhong Falling autumn when,
people always used to love a long time to stop in the low branches Yin shallow sing,
not share my heart still cherish the tenderness had gone with the wind,
hurt themselves seek a change of heart ,,,,< br> is determined to exact revenge in the same way,
But it is unwise not chic cute.
the most appropriate way is to smile, he said to treasure.
smile left to defeat our people,
to tears left to themselves,,,
the blessing to have lost our people,
the pain for themselves.
without a high cultural enrichment,
no insight into the subtle feelings,
no loved one from the heart of love,
who can do farewell smile? ?
the easy smile has left the general friend,
our people to have a negative is difficult.
Because most people tend to hurt us is our deepest love,
pay more, when the heart has been hurt more pain.
However, we have to smile,
mysterious feeling itself is a very complex thing.
We can not force others,
love of the reasons thousands of articles,
do not love the thousands of articles may be a reason also untenable,
that the mystery of who is there to say which so clear? no solution
love, love of impermanence.
we can sacrifice love,
but not at the expense of personality and self-esteem,
person alive that is the primary meaning.
damage to deal damage to a Jiehen way of course,
but the results can only hurt the people you love more determined to leave the determination.
love is double-edged sword,
one against the other, the other directed at his head.
moment of catharsis, although dripping, I, of tragedy is more intolerable.
inner balance can only be a temporary increase their black and blue,
why bother disturbing the others, they hurt themselves? After a,
even if the bar. The face of past laugh. . .
smile watching over a loved one happy day,
stronger than anything else.
in waiting,
pain will be gone quietly,
replaced with thoughts of his care.
Monday, June 27, 2011
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Thursday, May 5, 2011
Yu Dan 's marriage - great writing
Yu Dan's marriage - of great writing: ~ @ ~ sunny weather has been shared 10 times Comments (0) copy the link to the article I carefully read three times, I think of as the classic instructions from the hope that passing the determination to aspire to being a friend of each heart are carefully read, from your own life experience and to some perception, to wish each friends love happy marriage!
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Yu Dan: A good companion necessarily the case, but more because of you I love all the world, I am more aware than ever grace the heavy Parenting a better understanding of have their own circle of friends, but know have to go in the world to do many wonderful things. Your love I can not live up to ... ...
marriage is a beaker, into the two people actually two active elements. If you do not recognize that they went looking for another element, it is likely that you find a is a good element, but between the good elements did not respond to you, or even produce bad reactions ... ...
the premise of a happy marriage: a clear understanding of their own.
Hers: a happy family say similar, what do you think a happy marriage model can learn from it?
Yu Dan: good marriage there is no fixed pattern. However, before entering a good marriage, we must first understand themselves. To select the most appropriate their own, not the best. Each girl has a vanity, but the point is particularly important: your marriage is not the exhibits, the man of your choice, your father, the son of your parents, your lover, your hand, has been to white man. These things are no laws for others to see.
Hers: to share your personal experience it?
Yu Dan: Marriage is a chemical reaction, not a 1 +1 physical style connection. Marriage is a beaker, into the two people actually two active elements, what is your element, you need and what elements combined together will have a positive response? If you do not recognize that they went looking for another element, it is likely that you find a is a good element, but between the good elements did not respond to you, or even produce bad reactions. It's like buying clothes, girls are like beautiful fashion, you have to do all the crazy clothes, buy home? You will know that some clothes are not suitable for you. So why not put on this understanding of marriage on it?
Hers: Many people think that love and marriage are two different things, love to find a lover, married looking for a husband, you think marriage and love can be separated from it? Marriage without love, whether it be happy?
Yu Dan: I'm a love, the supremacy of the people. Have someone to talk to me and said about the years of love, has been seriously wounded, only to find a suitable person Jiadiao. I certainly do not agree. If this is to enter a marriage, you have this man is extremely irresponsible. Do you want to just obtain, have you entered the marriage with infidelity is hard to say you will not fall in love with someone else, your behaviors will convey the information he knows, he did not love you. This is equivalent to marriage in the choice of when you have planted the seeds of misfortune.
So then again, before entering the marriage, you need to understand who you are, what you most want, you can not let the marriage is full of romance. A good marriage there is a romantic, but romantic love is the source. If the marriage romance blocked the road, you would have to look outside marriage. So I say choose what kind of marriage is happy, or choose what kind of love from the start. What is your self, you will meet, what kind of love.
marriage is the best integration of the circle of recognition to each other, love each other's family, to accept each other's friends, because of each other, you will love everything in this world, you know more than ever grace the heavy Parenting, more have to go in the world do know a lot of wonderful things ... ...
happy marriage Scale: to meet the other three evaluation
Hers: modern women in the workplace more and more beautiful, but often confused about what is suitable for their own marriage, what is the relative measure of the standard?
Yu Dan: The problem is I often female students and I talked about. I have always said, speaking of marriage, be sure to do the other 3 aspects of the evaluation:
1, you really have a tacit understanding on the spiritual life of it? Agree on the value it? His aura is Zhaode Zhu you so that you have a deep spiritual attachment? Love can not replace all this stuff, because you have to have a lifetime. A special love of money and a love of money is not the person together, two people would conflict with each other; a special friend and a particularly nasty like people who can not social coordination. The flash of light, fit is very important.
2, whether enough of your social life integration? Love is two people, but marriage is a matter of two social groups. Marriage is the best integration, identity circle each other, love each other's family, to accept each other's friends, because each of you to love everything in this world, you know more than ever grace the heavy parenting, but to know to operate their circle of friends, but know have to go in the world to do many wonderful things. This acceptance, and you will feel more roots, in addition to love kindness there.
3, your sexual harmony? This is a very important indicator. The passion between men and women, depending on the degree of integration between the body. If your body is not understanding, then you may not say it directly to this thing, but the war will be a bit small. This is the marriage of the
- these three indicators as long as there is a less than 60 minutes, I think not rushed into marriage.
Hers: There is also a very popular argument is that a good marriage need to
Yu Dan: I do not pick the first door, but to pick two people understanding the values, but values can be acquired in the form of education. Good match between two people is more important than values, because each person is not captive in the home, you have to enter society, to go to work.
both me and my husband is especially not the same family environment. My father was an intellectual, cultural and historical research for many years engaged in work, I was back ancient poetry from childhood grew up, was carefully protected. I am father was an ordinary worker, the family had four sons, you can say a particularly rough life. But I like my grandma said a word: My husband is home, the eldest of three brothers listen to him, so my husband habitually willing to take responsibility. My husband and marriage, though not married, but just to the symmetry and complementarity.
into the marriage, in fact, the first two are nothing more than the second are the rich world. Nothing is because the equality of all before the bill have been torn to pieces; rich as the world is due to have love, because the two men will spend a lifetime ... ...
the elements of a happy marriage: equality & tolerance & Growth
Hers: a lot of good women in the marriage will complain, I thought I lost a marriage, do you think of where their errors?
Yu Dan: in marriage, can not take age, status of that matter. The beginning of the marriage, the wise woman will be two people on the absolute equality of status, before all charges are torn, no loss, no less. You are 10 years younger than him, you young and beautiful, you're better than his great reputation, you're better than his money ... ... This can not be lofty and full of unwilling reasons.
known to have such a story: (the British Queen Elizabeth to participate in social activities back home very late and found the bedroom door tightly closed. The Queen stood in the door to knock on the door, the husband asked: Queen. Elizabeth ah.
- This story tells us that no woman is eligible before the domineering lover. Into the marriage, the first two are nothing more than the second are the rich world. Nothing is because the equality of all the bills have been torn to pieces, rich with love than the world because, as the two men will spend a lifetime.
Hers: tolerance is undoubtedly essential for a happy marriage index, specifically, how to interpret it?
Yu Dan: Your manners have a gentle glow, the atmosphere that you are a woman; your heart has a large measure, that you are a happy woman.
Hers: Does this mean a woman to a large extent, to change yourself?
Yu Dan: no conflict between many of the concepts, inclusive does not mean obedience and connivance. Face in front of people to meet two people in private places Shique should be open. I suggest that a problem may wish to talk in the bedroom, unable to agree on body language can also have it, there is also something intimate about later, will not upgrade to the point where the Cold War. Marriage which need love, need wisdom.
modern society, some women the biggest myths about marriage is that they refuse to grow, that men take care of women is a matter of course, is bound by conscience and responsibility. Marriage is indeed very important responsibility and conscience, but its role can not be overstated. The maintenance of marriage a woman can not just rely on the conscience and responsibility, you have to have their own charm, so that their marriage has been a living, not dying to become a convention.
Hers: the growth of women in marriage is another major element of a happy marriage it?
Yu Dan: I think the best things in this world is the growth needed to grow a human life, marriage of two people need to grow, which means that one can enjoy themselves without the fear of aging, because she is always growing, She has the weapons to contend with the time, she has confidence, she saw his life come to bloom.
a marriage continue to grow, that is, your marriage, you never have to feel like a romantic lover. And pressure can not be lost because of busy two people's private time, to resort to casual, fine talk about friends, chat world, the evaluation of evaluation of what had happened, talk about children and the elderly, the communication, make your feelings has been very fit.
as a living person to a rational mind, great sense of responsibility to the family will be running very smoothly; as the heart of the living, we must make family a romantic, naive, a happy dream. This is a balanced combination of ... ...
the composition of a happy marriage:
Hers: a woman's independence and a happy marriage conflict?
Yu Dan: the independence that a woman has her own world is very complete, and then to marriage and love, she need only be obtained without the need for sacrifice. She can create, can stimulate new vitality, she could pleasure and enjoyment, but her husband is not a Ku Gualian with the child that I was looking for you, and you must give me anything. So I think that independence does not conflict with the happy marriage, independent women that tolerance is, the less independent the less tolerant, because she felt he owed her.
Hers: you have two people to see how the division of family roles?
Yu Dan: Inside the marriage, the two roles in the family division of labor will be a casual. A good marriage is balanced, which requires a person as a The brain alive as the man to reason, to grasp the family money, support the elderly, children's education, etc., that people want great sense of responsibility, the family will be running very smoothly; as the heart of the living, we must show home, a romantic, a naive, have a happy, a dream. The so-called a fly, one do not fly, is a balanced portfolio.
I do not fly often have some ideas, have been the end of July I was going and her husband, daughter go to Japan on vacation, her husband taking into account such factors as now the spread of influenza, and resolutely to the rejected. I will also depressed about, but I would argue with him. I said we go to Japan, went to Dalian, it is also the beach ah! This proposal was accepted by her husband. This is the heart and brain of game theory. He felt I was too tricky, carrying children to Mount Everest will dry things out, but if not me, we have not go even in Dalian, we will spend a summer nest in the home, bored, fight, nothing worth mentioning. So, is this a good marriage, heart to brain compromise, the brain on the heart has to accommodate the crazy dream, everything was harmonious.
so good, and sincerely hope that my friends to share it!
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Yu Dan: A good companion necessarily the case, but more because of you I love all the world, I am more aware than ever grace the heavy Parenting a better understanding of have their own circle of friends, but know have to go in the world to do many wonderful things. Your love I can not live up to ... ...
marriage is a beaker, into the two people actually two active elements. If you do not recognize that they went looking for another element, it is likely that you find a is a good element, but between the good elements did not respond to you, or even produce bad reactions ... ...
the premise of a happy marriage: a clear understanding of their own.
Hers: a happy family say similar, what do you think a happy marriage model can learn from it?
Yu Dan: good marriage there is no fixed pattern. However, before entering a good marriage, we must first understand themselves. To select the most appropriate their own, not the best. Each girl has a vanity, but the point is particularly important: your marriage is not the exhibits, the man of your choice, your father, the son of your parents, your lover, your hand, has been to white man. These things are no laws for others to see.
Hers: to share your personal experience it?
Yu Dan: Marriage is a chemical reaction, not a 1 +1 physical style connection. Marriage is a beaker, into the two people actually two active elements, what is your element, you need and what elements combined together will have a positive response? If you do not recognize that they went looking for another element, it is likely that you find a is a good element, but between the good elements did not respond to you, or even produce bad reactions. It's like buying clothes, girls are like beautiful fashion, you have to do all the crazy clothes, buy home? You will know that some clothes are not suitable for you. So why not put on this understanding of marriage on it?
Hers: Many people think that love and marriage are two different things, love to find a lover, married looking for a husband, you think marriage and love can be separated from it? Marriage without love, whether it be happy?
Yu Dan: I'm a love, the supremacy of the people. Have someone to talk to me and said about the years of love, has been seriously wounded, only to find a suitable person Jiadiao. I certainly do not agree. If this is to enter a marriage, you have this man is extremely irresponsible. Do you want to just obtain, have you entered the marriage with infidelity is hard to say you will not fall in love with someone else, your behaviors will convey the information he knows, he did not love you. This is equivalent to marriage in the choice of when you have planted the seeds of misfortune.
So then again, before entering the marriage, you need to understand who you are, what you most want, you can not let the marriage is full of romance. A good marriage there is a romantic, but romantic love is the source. If the marriage romance blocked the road, you would have to look outside marriage. So I say choose what kind of marriage is happy, or choose what kind of love from the start. What is your self, you will meet, what kind of love.
marriage is the best integration of the circle of recognition to each other, love each other's family, to accept each other's friends, because of each other, you will love everything in this world, you know more than ever grace the heavy Parenting, more have to go in the world do know a lot of wonderful things ... ...
happy marriage Scale: to meet the other three evaluation
Hers: modern women in the workplace more and more beautiful, but often confused about what is suitable for their own marriage, what is the relative measure of the standard?
Yu Dan: The problem is I often female students and I talked about. I have always said, speaking of marriage, be sure to do the other 3 aspects of the evaluation:
1, you really have a tacit understanding on the spiritual life of it? Agree on the value it? His aura is Zhaode Zhu you so that you have a deep spiritual attachment? Love can not replace all this stuff, because you have to have a lifetime. A special love of money and a love of money is not the person together, two people would conflict with each other; a special friend and a particularly nasty like people who can not social coordination. The flash of light, fit is very important.
2, whether enough of your social life integration? Love is two people, but marriage is a matter of two social groups. Marriage is the best integration, identity circle each other, love each other's family, to accept each other's friends, because each of you to love everything in this world, you know more than ever grace the heavy parenting, but to know to operate their circle of friends, but know have to go in the world to do many wonderful things. This acceptance, and you will feel more roots, in addition to love kindness there.
3, your sexual harmony? This is a very important indicator. The passion between men and women, depending on the degree of integration between the body. If your body is not understanding, then you may not say it directly to this thing, but the war will be a bit small. This is the marriage of the
- these three indicators as long as there is a less than 60 minutes, I think not rushed into marriage.
Hers: There is also a very popular argument is that a good marriage need to
Yu Dan: I do not pick the first door, but to pick two people understanding the values, but values can be acquired in the form of education. Good match between two people is more important than values, because each person is not captive in the home, you have to enter society, to go to work.
both me and my husband is especially not the same family environment. My father was an intellectual, cultural and historical research for many years engaged in work, I was back ancient poetry from childhood grew up, was carefully protected. I am father was an ordinary worker, the family had four sons, you can say a particularly rough life. But I like my grandma said a word: My husband is home, the eldest of three brothers listen to him, so my husband habitually willing to take responsibility. My husband and marriage, though not married, but just to the symmetry and complementarity.
into the marriage, in fact, the first two are nothing more than the second are the rich world. Nothing is because the equality of all before the bill have been torn to pieces; rich as the world is due to have love, because the two men will spend a lifetime ... ...
the elements of a happy marriage: equality & tolerance & Growth
Hers: a lot of good women in the marriage will complain, I thought I lost a marriage, do you think of where their errors?
Yu Dan: in marriage, can not take age, status of that matter. The beginning of the marriage, the wise woman will be two people on the absolute equality of status, before all charges are torn, no loss, no less. You are 10 years younger than him, you young and beautiful, you're better than his great reputation, you're better than his money ... ... This can not be lofty and full of unwilling reasons.
known to have such a story: (the British Queen Elizabeth to participate in social activities back home very late and found the bedroom door tightly closed. The Queen stood in the door to knock on the door, the husband asked: Queen. Elizabeth ah.
- This story tells us that no woman is eligible before the domineering lover. Into the marriage, the first two are nothing more than the second are the rich world. Nothing is because the equality of all the bills have been torn to pieces, rich with love than the world because, as the two men will spend a lifetime.
Hers: tolerance is undoubtedly essential for a happy marriage index, specifically, how to interpret it?
Yu Dan: Your manners have a gentle glow, the atmosphere that you are a woman; your heart has a large measure, that you are a happy woman.
Hers: Does this mean a woman to a large extent, to change yourself?
Yu Dan: no conflict between many of the concepts, inclusive does not mean obedience and connivance. Face in front of people to meet two people in private places Shique should be open. I suggest that a problem may wish to talk in the bedroom, unable to agree on body language can also have it, there is also something intimate about later, will not upgrade to the point where the Cold War. Marriage which need love, need wisdom.
modern society, some women the biggest myths about marriage is that they refuse to grow, that men take care of women is a matter of course, is bound by conscience and responsibility. Marriage is indeed very important responsibility and conscience, but its role can not be overstated. The maintenance of marriage a woman can not just rely on the conscience and responsibility, you have to have their own charm, so that their marriage has been a living, not dying to become a convention.
Hers: the growth of women in marriage is another major element of a happy marriage it?
Yu Dan: I think the best things in this world is the growth needed to grow a human life, marriage of two people need to grow, which means that one can enjoy themselves without the fear of aging, because she is always growing, She has the weapons to contend with the time, she has confidence, she saw his life come to bloom.
a marriage continue to grow, that is, your marriage, you never have to feel like a romantic lover. And pressure can not be lost because of busy two people's private time, to resort to casual, fine talk about friends, chat world, the evaluation of evaluation of what had happened, talk about children and the elderly, the communication, make your feelings has been very fit.
as a living person to a rational mind, great sense of responsibility to the family will be running very smoothly; as the heart of the living, we must make family a romantic, naive, a happy dream. This is a balanced combination of ... ...
the composition of a happy marriage:
Hers: a woman's independence and a happy marriage conflict?
Yu Dan: the independence that a woman has her own world is very complete, and then to marriage and love, she need only be obtained without the need for sacrifice. She can create, can stimulate new vitality, she could pleasure and enjoyment, but her husband is not a Ku Gualian with the child that I was looking for you, and you must give me anything. So I think that independence does not conflict with the happy marriage, independent women that tolerance is, the less independent the less tolerant, because she felt he owed her.
Hers: you have two people to see how the division of family roles?
Yu Dan: Inside the marriage, the two roles in the family division of labor will be a casual. A good marriage is balanced, which requires a person as a The brain alive as the man to reason, to grasp the family money, support the elderly, children's education, etc., that people want great sense of responsibility, the family will be running very smoothly; as the heart of the living, we must show home, a romantic, a naive, have a happy, a dream. The so-called a fly, one do not fly, is a balanced portfolio.
I do not fly often have some ideas, have been the end of July I was going and her husband, daughter go to Japan on vacation, her husband taking into account such factors as now the spread of influenza, and resolutely to the rejected. I will also depressed about, but I would argue with him. I said we go to Japan, went to Dalian, it is also the beach ah! This proposal was accepted by her husband. This is the heart and brain of game theory. He felt I was too tricky, carrying children to Mount Everest will dry things out, but if not me, we have not go even in Dalian, we will spend a summer nest in the home, bored, fight, nothing worth mentioning. So, is this a good marriage, heart to brain compromise, the brain on the heart has to accommodate the crazy dream, everything was harmonious.
so good, and sincerely hope that my friends to share it!
Thursday, April 28, 2011
Misheard lyrics in the history of the easiest
A lot of songs, because the singer or the song itself is the reason, simply heard lyrics is not clear, there are a lot of very good when we again had to listen to the lyrics wrong.
● a child listening to
● The end of the year song Grand Arts:
● Mickey Mouse and Donald Duck remember it? Titles says, How can I have a grievance.
● is a wonder child, why is worse two years?
● Mengting Wei's to human beings!
● my high school classmates told me that he was a boy the He did not know then, The most terrible is that in the west of their village to a height hobble around a transformer, the transformer top of the evening just to see a red sun. Students have children so I wonder: Why writing songs people know their village on the west side of the transformer it?
● Andy Lau's Strange, do the authors that they had a ... ...
● , is selling computers sold with you ... ... the firm, the beans will incense it? Because the beans it is patriotic. I have been so understanding.
● edge, listening to Mama that thing of the past ... ... Baoyi Bao Listen all the way down, I heard frequently Jordan Chan singing Not change the yuppies it? Wrong ah? One found out the lyrics:
● There is a song, until now, I also think that sentence is:
● Have you ever heard Jacky Cheung singing I ... ...
● On another occasion, the the face.
● Later the students to sing over and over again the same bedroom with single songs:
● Richie version of the Ye Hao ... ... Why make life difficult for the old with the actor too! ! !
● remember wandering Fei's hop.
● I am a rural to students, listening to Chang Hui-mei's unable to open: the tide, when actually listening to
● unclear articulation to say, the most important Jay, he hum a song: little slut ... ...
● there is one, and the lyrics are not related, is an advertisement. We saw Cecilia Cheung Softto slimming ads are not ah. Cecilia Cheung Satisfy around the waist, a swaying, graceful and luxuriant to come out next to the beautiful look with envy at the two, Zhang Americans say ? After a long time communicating with friends, only to know the truth. We hilarious!
● a child listening to
● The end of the year song Grand Arts:
● Mickey Mouse and Donald Duck remember it? Titles says, How can I have a grievance.
● is a wonder child, why is worse two years?
● Mengting Wei's to human beings!
● my high school classmates told me that he was a boy the He did not know then, The most terrible is that in the west of their village to a height hobble around a transformer, the transformer top of the evening just to see a red sun. Students have children so I wonder: Why writing songs people know their village on the west side of the transformer it?
● Andy Lau's Strange, do the authors that they had a ... ...
● , is selling computers sold with you ... ... the firm, the beans will incense it? Because the beans it is patriotic. I have been so understanding.
● edge, listening to Mama that thing of the past ... ... Baoyi Bao Listen all the way down, I heard frequently Jordan Chan singing Not change the yuppies it? Wrong ah? One found out the lyrics:
● There is a song, until now, I also think that sentence is:
● Have you ever heard Jacky Cheung singing I ... ...
● On another occasion, the the face.
● Later the students to sing over and over again the same bedroom with single songs:
● Richie version of the Ye Hao ... ... Why make life difficult for the old with the actor too! ! !
● remember wandering Fei's hop.
● I am a rural to students, listening to Chang Hui-mei's unable to open: the tide, when actually listening to
● unclear articulation to say, the most important Jay, he hum a song: little slut ... ...
● there is one, and the lyrics are not related, is an advertisement. We saw Cecilia Cheung Softto slimming ads are not ah. Cecilia Cheung Satisfy around the waist, a swaying, graceful and luxuriant to come out next to the beautiful look with envy at the two, Zhang Americans say ? After a long time communicating with friends, only to know the truth. We hilarious!
Wednesday, April 27, 2011
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